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That Potential Axe Murderer Bloke ... update

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BatmansWilly · 18/03/2009 10:48

(quick back ground: started talking to man online, he kept asking for my home address, got stroppy and said he'd waited up all night for me to text, arranged to meet me in a pub and then asked me to meet him around the BACK of the pub in his car!!!)

If anyone is interested! I was too intrigued to just block him like I was advised to but I did cancel the dodgy car date.

However I was chatting to him on msn last night, trying to work out what he was upto. He again asked for my address. I said "no". He asked "why" and said he was a good bloke and wanted to prove it. I said "I can't give my address out to some random over the net, surely you can see that?" and he said "but its silly though ... "

So I said "ok, give me your address and I'll come and visit you" he went VERY quiet and then said he was an ex para and couldn't give out his address incase I wanted to go and blow his house up (I took the opportunity to say "exactly, you never know WHO you're talking to on here".

So he went all quiet and asked when we could meet ... and then said "once you see I'm ok, then you could give me your address x"

So I changed the subject and asked him about sports ... simply to lead him to ask me what I did and I told him I was a karate instructor and trained 4 times a week. Needless to say he went VERY quiet again!! He then said "cool, you'll have to show me some self defense moves". So I'm thinking "gotcha" and I replied "Oh, I would have thought you knew lots already". He said "why?" so I said "well, being an ex para ... I was in the army, you are trained heavily in self defense...right?" so he went quiet again and said "yes, it was a long time ago though, I forgot most of it". So I said "What did you do? Muay Thai or Kung Fu?"

He replied "Kung Fu" PMSL ... I know for a fact they don't teach that in the paras lol

So he's obviously a nut. But what do you reckon, 'innocently' just cheating on a wife somewhere or serial killer?

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songstress · 18/03/2009 13:38

I went out with a so-called ex-para once - he was a complete fantasist and turned out he was married. Some of the yarns he spun, amazing! In the end he just disappeared (luckily). Maybe yours is one and the same!

Stretch · 18/03/2009 13:40

The things guys do just to get into your knickers!!

BatmansWilly · 18/03/2009 13:41

haha I really was worried for a minute there.

Saying that, the photo of the girl could have been stolen off the net

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BatmansWilly · 18/03/2009 13:42

Oh he's also an ex council officer btw ... I'm sure he's an ex-everything when the story fits!

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solidgoldbrass · 18/03/2009 13:43

Hmm, balance of probability suggests he is more likely to be a complete loser with a fantasy life, or possibly a conman - but there is an outside chance of him being actually dangerous. So play a bit of poke-the-piggy-with-a-stick if you want to, but make sure he has no way of actually tracking you down.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/03/2009 13:50

actually joking aside what solid has said is very true
and btw.you have a couple of seemingly normal possibilities to concentrate on

Alambil · 18/03/2009 14:07

that's shocking!!

I'd block and delete post-haste

AttilaTheMeerkat · 18/03/2009 14:54

"he went VERY quiet and then said he was an ex para and couldn't give out his address incase I wanted to go and blow his house up"

Ex para my arse!. He sounds like yet another con man (plenty such people tell stories of being in the forces etc and they believe themselves). Ditch, block and delete.

sarah76 · 18/03/2009 15:18

Agree with SGB, be very careful about continuing any communication with this guy. He sounds beyond weird--just trying to cheat wouldn't necessitate making up loads of unbelieveable crap about yourself. Glad you cancelled the date.

BatmansWilly · 18/03/2009 16:16

Haha just reading this back and realised I'm almost as bad as him ... In one night I've become a karate instructor, I have a history in the army and a re-occuring illness making it difficult to arrange dates

Blondemoment, you're right there!!

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BatmansWilly · 21/03/2009 12:33

Stretch, just an update for you ... he told me last night that he was born in London and lived there most of his life.

What did the one you were talking to look like? I really think it could be the same person.

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Stretch · 23/03/2009 09:44

No, he lived in Midlands and moved to London for a couple of years. Then moved back recently. Family live here.

I know he was born in Midlands because he went to the same school as a couple of friends and they share a few friends on facebook from that school, IYSWIM?

God, there are 2 nutters then!

Stretch · 23/03/2009 10:54

Just seen your update on the other thread! Jeez, he sounds like a complete nutjob. Don't go near him again.

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