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UPDATE; How to talk to h

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ukrainianmum · 15/03/2009 17:34

Hello to everybody..
I osted here a few weeks ago on problems and difficulties with contacting my h who lives in London.
"look herewww.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/693344-How-to-talk-to-h"

Well, a little and shocking update.
He sent me a message on Skype on the 10th o March sayong that he is a total and complete looser.. And he is globaly unlucky in this life. And that I need to think whether I need him in my life. And that he is not joking.....

It sounded very depressing to me... very.. I do not know what to think olr to do.
I have been left on my own. Our dd will be 4 on the 19th.. She still talks about him...

Situation is so horrible. I just do not know what to do...

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ukrainianmum · 15/03/2009 17:58

probably on Sunday night people are busy with prep for the next week..
I would appreciate any advice or comment.
But unfortunatly I will not reply form tomorrow till Friday.
My old grandpa broke his hip 2 months ago and now I am taking care of him. He lives in another town and where he lives seems like all the progress that world has made are not present..

Life gave me so many new and difficult surprises now.. every week or two I get another bad news. I just do not know how I am keeping on...
I need help and support..please. just devatsted

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niceone1 · 15/03/2009 18:06

Hello...I will read your other thread...just wanted to let you know you are not alone. I'm sure other will be along shortly. Hang in there. xx

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ukrainianmum · 15/03/2009 18:32

thank you niceone1

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ukrainianmum · 16/03/2009 05:01

bump

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PottyCock · 16/03/2009 07:12

I think you have to call this a day in your head UM - he is obviously not committed to either of you. For your own sanity and the sake of your little girl, you're going to have to forget about this man and do your best as a single mother. There are worse things to be and life could be so much better spent than agonising over someone who is clearly not really interested, or who wants out and doesn't have the heart/bravery to actually end it formally with you.

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