Thanks for help about suicide threats

[debs05]

I am so grateful for all your opinions. I have discussed it with him and he said he knows hes acted in a manipulative way. I told him he was almost abusing the kids and he was horrified. He has moved out and now I can have the space that I need to sort my head out. I do love him and his behaviour has become worse through frustration in not being able to sort things.
If only he'd thought of all this before. Its a massive lesson about not knowing what youve got till its gone and playing with other peoples feelings. I am so devastated about the affairs and I can not even think of being with him until I can put them in the past. I need now to focus on my kids and college.

I'm pleased things have changed. Perhaps he had never had it laid out like that (abuse) and maybe it will make him change.

Yes, focusing on you and getting on with your life and not making it all hang on him, iyswim, is really positive.

Good luck.

Well done you. I hope that your future is more positive and that you get the thinking sapce and breathing space that you need and deserve.

Well done Debs, you have done the right thing. A good bit of time on your own will help you to see a different perspective and allow you to sort out your feelings. Am also glad he has admitted his behaviour.

Good luck!