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Moody men/people in general

16 replies

SerendipitousHarlot · 06/03/2009 19:57

What is that? Why can't you be consistent? Have you any idea how aggravating it is to look at your MISERABLE FACE ALL NIGHT LONG???

Breathe. I thank you

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 06/03/2009 20:30

Anybody in particular lol.

SerendipitousHarlot · 06/03/2009 20:43

Oh bloody dh

You'd think I'd be used to it wouldn't you? But I'm so NOT moody that I find it really hard. I just want to shout at him

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mumonthenet · 06/03/2009 21:08

serendip,

sing loudly,

grab kids and go out for a movie/pizza,

get a tv and a comfy chair in another room,

above all, do not fall into the trap of trying to jolly him out of it.

mumonthenet · 06/03/2009 21:09

or on reflection,

say what you said in your first post

then

grab kids and go out for a movie.

solidgoldbrass · 06/03/2009 21:11

Just don't react, go and do something enjoyable and pretend it's not happening.
Is he moody because you've rowed, or has he got indigestion, or what?

random · 06/03/2009 21:12

I hate moody people ...just ignore him

southeastastra · 06/03/2009 21:22
random · 06/03/2009 21:31

Lol @ sea you mardy arse

aseriouslyblondemoment · 06/03/2009 21:36

either ignore him and do the 'la,la,la'thing in your head and smile un bovveredly at him
or tell him to get a grip
i can't be doing with that kind of stuff either,life's hard enough

onepieceofcremeegg · 06/03/2009 21:49

I tend to ignore all moody people. Thankfully that doesn't apply to my dh but ex-ps in the past have had this issue.

I have perfected the art of ignoring my very moody/sulky mil. It's so childish and undignified to sulk imo.

SerendipitousHarlot · 06/03/2009 23:03

It's just so frustrating! It's not for any other reason, that he's tired. But it really gets on my nerves. No need. Miserable shit's in bed now anyway

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Jenice · 06/03/2009 23:19

If he is tired tell him to go to bed and stop making everyone else miserable by moping around moaning about it for hours before going to bed.

He's clearly looking for sympathy by hanging around miserable for any length of time. Only give it to him if he really requires it say on a particularly bad day otherwise don't bother or he'll sap all your good energy.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 06/03/2009 23:20

lol
bet you're dying to smother him with a pillow tonite

echt · 07/03/2009 10:32

No offence, but was he like this before you married him? If so, why did you do it? Mostly, people do what it says on the tin. Mostly. And they don't change.

sincitylover · 07/03/2009 12:38

I was on holiday with my H (now exH)in 2002, we sat down after a long day with a glass of wine. Finally thought we can relax.

he sat there looking like he was sucking a lemon!

When we got back I went to relate. We split in 2006.

He was very moody.

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion · 07/03/2009 12:52

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