I would like to be a "slutty cow" for a bit.. please advise :)

[MaddieMoonlighting]

Have borrowed a term from another relationship thread (someone who really ISN'T a slutty cow by the sound of it bless her!) but it struck a chord with me.. I want to be one Just for a little while probably. But haven't a clue how.

I have just come out of a 15 year marriage; been very hurt by it. Previous to that I was married briefly way too young. I have never done the slut thing. And I'd quite like to.

I have kids.. lots of responsibilties.. online dating scared me senseless... I have a few male friends that may oblige but that doesn't seem like a good idea somehow...

Any advice??!

Going casual you might like to think about what kind of sex are you seeking? Online dating is good for checking out who sounds like they would be hot in bed and who would be a waste of sheets and time.

You could join a singles meeting singles group and go out on outings. Check out your newspaper see what happening around your area.

Eeek that sounds a bit.. clinical.. and slaggy. But I guess that's how slutty cows must behave..

I just miss sex.. am a bit lonely.. but not ready for a relationship...

I think as lone parents a lot of us have had similar thoughts.

Join us on the lone parents dating thread, lots of advice and virtual hand holding on there!

Yes I put this in the wrong place didn't I really..

I have a rampant rabbit I'm just not remotely interested in.. :/

Have brave the thread in question. Hate forcing my way into threads full of friends tho..

no advice but just want to say have fun...

I would love some good sex.... Having been single for 3.5 years

not sure i could so the casual thing as i tend to let my emotions get in the way as i have done recently to someone who only wanted casual.... bt i didnt havhe sex with him just lots of other intimate fun

As the slutty cow from the other thread I can try & give you the benefit of my (sorely limited, look at the mess I'm making of my own life) knowledge and experience....

I've never done the internet dating thing, mainly because I'm a bit weird and a lot of the initial sexual attraction for me (and in fairness if you're going to have sex it should be with someone you are physically attracted to!) is to do with men's mannerisms, physical characteristics and smells etc, none of which you can pick up online...and imo, you dont want to be messaging someone who sounds hot & getting all excited for a few weeks, then meeting them & finding them v off putting in the flesh

the singles group thing might be better, i dont know much about them, am sure though the lovely ladies on the lone parents thread will have lots more advice for you

failing which I can always give you the name of the pub i was in on friday