Threads that make you shout FFS LEAVE THE *********

[EffiePerine]

'(D)H won't have sex with me and says it's my fault because I'm pg/had kids/put on weight yadda yadda'

Yep, there are some hair rippingly awful men out there.

they are frustrating but sometimes its very difficult to see what the outside world sees.

yes they are frustrating - however coming from the otherside quite often the posters won't admit to what their faults are, or what they have/are doing/done/said/saying in the relationship.

You know it takes two to tango

I seem to have noticed a lot more of these threads recently - Why?

Maybe christmas was a turning point who knows

It's not always that easy to be so clear from inside the situation.

We can all look at it objectively and know the logical thing to do, because we have no feelings about it. It's harder when there's love or fear or regret or hope.

Plus you can put a certain spin on things, depending on your mood! And it's only one side of the truth, iyswim!

Tis hard.

am just angry incensed at men who get away with making their problems someone else's

no-one should be made to feel like shite by their partner

i agree HQ, tho there does come a time when you have to wise up and sort yourself out.

that's what I was trying to say Hecate - only one side of the truth.

I'm sure many MNer's thing I'm totally bonkers for making mends with DH again given the stuff I posted about. But what the majority of people don't know is what my part in the whole thing was. He was no angel that's for sure........but neither was I (but I was hardly likely to start a post on MN saying something along the lines of

"I did x,y,z to DH, then I said this, that, the other and now he's upset".............was I

Obviously there ARE many complete bastards out there and that's , but what not all of them that people say "what a bastard" will actually be bastards, it's just that the poster is also a bitch at times, so together they're right bastards and bitches, and the bitches will only post about what the bastards have done.

I think these threads are always prevalent in the New Year. Get Christmas out of the way sort of thing and then re-evaluate the relationship.,

According to Relate - It is the busiest time of year for marriage guidance. You can wait weks and weeks to get an appointment.

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