dont know whether i'm coming or going!

[billyswift]

i dont knwo where to start i think my marriage is over, no one is at fault so why do i feel so guilty? he still loves me but i dont think i love him in teh way i should if that mkes sense? he has given me 2 wonderful children so we will always have that link, how did you cope after a break up, can i do it on my own?

Sorry you are feeling so down. It must be a tough time for you.

Are you sure it is over though? Have you tried couples counselling and really talked it over?

Did you ever love your DH (in which case it may be possible to rekindle something if he still loves you) or have you never felt the way you should about him?

Not saying you have to stay if you are deeply unhappy and know it won't work but if there is no huge issue of infidelity, abusive or unreasonable behaviour then it is sad to end a marriage without a fight.