I have been sleeping with a married guy for a few months. He says he loves his wife etc but that they are not sexually compatable and that he needs someone to please him in the bedroom. This has somehow ended up being me. I love the attention I get from him. He is a very complimentary guy and makes me feel good about myself but I know what were doing is wrong and has to stop.
Problem is I dont know how to stop it. I have just got divorced so have been in a difficult place and I think this is a reaction to the stress of the past few months.
I know it sounds stupid not knowing how to end it, but I need this to be over perminantly. Somebody is going to get hurt if it carries on any longer. I dont want to find myself saying to him one week that we cant see one another anymore then falling back into bed with him the next.
I know people are going to flame me for this. I know its bad and Im ashamed of myself for it. Im not even sure how it happened in the first place. I just want to get away from it all.
I hope people can understand that this just happened. It wasn't pre-meditated and I never set out to hurt his wife. I feel disgusted with myself and would be gutted if anyone in rl ever found out.
could do with some advice on putting a stop to this.