Someone must be looking down on me........

[shoptilidrop]

really they must.
I kicked Dh out just a week before xmas after only just moving back in with him ( and 70 miles away). I found out he had been up to his old tricks. It has been a horrible,horrible month. I have only got 3 months before i have to leave this house ( forces) and i need to find new job back home, new house and new childcare. I found out yesterday that a charity have agreed to pay my deposit, first months rent and admin fees. That made my day and made me cry. Without that help there is no way i would manage it. Also out of the blue today i have got a letter from a solicitor and have surprisingly been left 3k in a relatives will. I will be able to buy a car ( my currecnt car is soooo old and is costing me so much money.... but i would never have the money to replace it.) And my sister has just text me and said he friend ( who is a manager of a well known bed company - will help me out and give me a big discount and throw in a new mattress.
I could actaully cry. I cant believe how things are turning around... now all i need is to get a job... interviews are in two weeks and i have everything crossed.

That is fantastic news!! I remember your thread when it was all going horribly wrong - I'm so pleased for you!

brilliant news!!
enjoy enjoy enjoy

that's great news! and with that headstart you will find the necessary confidence for the interviews too.

That is great

You so deserve some good luck.

And you will get that job

my grandma used to say that the sun shines on the righteous!

Enjoy and good luck with the interview - let us all know how you get on.

That is really fab news.

I cant belive it - i really cant. I just need to get the job now. Finding a house will be easy - there are loads in the area. Ive already organised childcare.
In 3 months i will be sorted - ill have a fresh new start.
Honestly without the help from the charity it would all be impossible. I will have to repay them in kind as much as i can when i move back.
The money is a huge surprise. I cant belive it, and doubt i will until it is in my account. It couldnt have come at a better time. My car is really really old. It is falling apart and cost £600 to get through the last MOT, which is more than the car was worth really. I had to borrow money from my mum to pay for it and im paying her back monthly. Money is going to be tight, so i wouild have never been able to save to buy a newer one.

And the new bed is just the iciing on the cake. I was going to try and get one before i moved. Im not sleeping on my old one at the momment, It actually makes me feel sick. I am going to leave it - and all my painful memories in this house when i leave, and not look back.

I just cant believe it.

That is fantastic!

Lovely lovely people in the world.

I hope the move all goes well.

Thanks everyone -

shop, I remember you

things are going your way but it is no more than you deserve

have faith, and you will be fine

sorry, that sounded a bit churchy but you know what I mean, have faith in your strength to get you through (and continue to accept favours, good karma etc)

Hey shiptilidrop i have been wondering how you are doing? So glad things are looking up for you

Thanks any and vinegar.

Any - i knew what you mean. Im feeling really really positive today. ( not surprising though) i will be ok and i cant wait to start my new life. Fresh start will be just what i need.

Vinegar - im fine, have had a few low days, but thats to be expected i supose. I just trying to look to the future now. I cant change what has happened, and now am not sure i would want to. I have realised that this didnt happene becuase of me or anything i have done. But beacuse the prat is a lying idiot who will never ever change. I actually feel sorry for the next woman that comes along, because he will do the exact same thing to her......
DD will be fine, again i cant change who her dad is, but i can make sure she is happy, loved by me and well looked after.
But today i am happy - very happy. Its all coming together. will not tell the prat about the money. will wait, and when he comes to pick dd up in my new house, a few months from now, i shall laugh when his jaw hits the floor when he sees the car. That will be the biggest pay back i could get. Me and dd settled, happy in our new house, and managing fine without him.

Fabulous, what a lovely lovely day. Restores your faith in humankind, doesn't it?

ohhh, karma is a wonderful thing......

oh yes...... i totally agree!