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I feel fabulous again

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newfoundland · 26/01/2009 17:52

The honeymoon stage lasted a long time but like a lot of couples we settled into everyday life and lost that something you have with all new relationships.

Don't get me wrong, we were still very much in love and best friends but our relationship was routine.

That was until we decided to talk about it in depth and have now discovered a new way, a new meaning for both of us, a new beginning and it's wonderful. I feel like I did when I first met him only now I love him dearly, trust him completely and can't imagine sharing my life with anyone else.

I've banished all my ghosts and allowed myself to trust me and him. I've allowed myself to live as we choose. I feel free for the first time in my adult life.

That's it Life's great and I wanted to share my happy story.

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newfoundland · 26/01/2009 18:02

Puzzlerocks

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ineeedtostopworrying · 26/01/2009 18:03

how lovely

how long have you been together?

Carmenere · 26/01/2009 18:04

Have you 'surrendered' to him?

newfoundland · 26/01/2009 18:14

Thank you INTSW. We've been together 5 years.

Carm I can't agree with Laura Doyle but you're not far off mark ( and that you knew that. HTH did you get that?)

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Carmenere · 26/01/2009 20:22

It was just a feeling, i am sorry i am a bit about that whole kind of relationship. However if it works for you, great

PuzzleRocks · 26/01/2009 20:28

Sorry, i've not had a chance to MNet until now.

jenk1 · 26/01/2009 20:55

i think its lovely that you have rediscovered each other and are very happy,but what is the "surrendered" bit all about????

newfoundland · 26/01/2009 21:05

PuzzleRocks

Carm I can understand your and thank you for being nice about it despite it not being your thing. TBH I know it's not something a lot of people would agree with but we're happy and that's what matters.

See you both around (with my regular name )

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themildmanneredjanitor · 26/01/2009 21:07

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jenk1 · 26/01/2009 21:21

yes tell tell we want to know!!!

newfoundland · 26/01/2009 21:37

It's really not something a lot of people would do so I won't go into it on this thread. This was really just to share how happy I am about a positive change in our relationship. I never thought for a minute Carm or anyone else would get it but no harm. I don't really mind people knowing as such it's just I don't want to get into a big debate on the right or wrong of it.

I came here looking for advice about 7 months ago andthis was my thread [if you want to read it]. Since then I have looked more into the suggestions made on it and we have decided one in particular is for us that's all.

Sorry to disappoint but thanks for being interested all the same

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