Brief history; parents divorced when I was 3 or 4ish, they bloody hate each other, was brought up by my dad. Dad and SM have always said they would expect me not to invite my mother to my wedding "out of respect for them".
I think I've suffered all my life because of their divorce, I now have a very close relationship with my mother (and a rather fraught one with them) and I just want to have one day in my life where I am not being punished for what went on beween them all those years ago.
Dad will go mental and have decided to tell him in a letter as I want him to understand why am inviting my mother. (He will hit the roof and say am just doing it to annoy him, probably.)
I'm entitled to, aren't I, no matter what went on? And how can I word it, would be sooo grateful for any feedback as am finding this emotionally extremely difficult. TIA.