What sort of game is this he is playing now?

[SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore]

Dh is leaving, hopefully. His suitcase is packed and in the living room. I had better not get used to having the children around because he has a plan

BUT now he is in the yard cleaning it!!!! wtf does he think is going to happen? Does he think I am going to turn round and say "Oh you have cleaned the yard you can stay. You have ruined the last four and half years of my life, but I'll forgive since you have cleaned the yard"

Wouldn't they just untie the rope if they wanted to take the case though? Or open it and take the stuff? He has some fairly expensive trainers that I think he has packed.

I need for things to stay amicable between us in order for me to still be able to work. He can be very childish and if handle things badly might refuse to look after them while I work.

I don't fancy being a single unemployed mum. I like having the freedom going to work brings. So I guess I will just have to listen to what he has to say.

Well good luck

Let us know how you get on.