in lust but not with dh..

[littlemisschatalot]

married for 8 years, together for 12. 2 ds, 3 and 4.
have fallen inexplicably in lust with someone who i see at the gym. i feel like a teenager, thinking about him, imagining senarios where he notices me etc, total teenage stuff.
i love my husband but there is a lot wrong in our marraige, i feel taken for granted, he has next to nothing to do with the ds, he is incapable of playing with them. he never has made me feel special although i know he loves me deeply. despite me raising issues, he never changes.
will this phase of lust pass? or is it a warning sign to cut losses?

It will pass, I think little crushes on other people are healthy as long as they stay crushes and dont become anything else.
Just enjoy it but dont let it go any further

I had this once in the supermarket, DSs 1 & 2 were similar ages to yours. Could it be hormones?

Also, DH was same when DSs small. Is now happy to take them to play golf (i.e. they have 2B able to do what he wants to do - bit difficult when aged 3 & 4)

wrong thread ?

lol cheap. dh spends more time playing lego than they do.
possibly hormones...but this man appears opposite to dh in every way. maybe grass is always greener/??