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I am SEETHING!

9 replies

misscathcart · 11/01/2009 09:47

Grrr! I just need to get this down and rant to anyone before I phone up the silly bitch and say something I shouldn't!
The OW who ex went off with last christmas, and who has caused no-end of hurt and unhappiness to everyone (including ex!), was with a friend of dp's last night when he went out with a group. This is the first time he has met her but they know who each other is and he is aware of her history etc.
How innappropriate is it that she was playing best buddys with him, asking him how I was, telling him all about some probs my ex has etc (ex is bi-polar)
Dp states he was civil but very uncomfortable with the whole encounter.
I'm so fucking mad that she has the cheek to act all friendly!
Also that she knows damn well that ex is having a tough week and is really paranoid. He was meant to be going out with her last night but could get himself 'together' enough to face it - then she's going around telling someone she doesnt even know -MY boyfriend - all about his problems!!!
FFS

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IAmTheNewQueenOfMN · 11/01/2009 09:49

You are completely right to be seething
BUT she is obviously not very nice
maybe looking fdor a reaction even
so rise above it and do nothing

lillypie · 11/01/2009 09:56

I agree she is trying to wind you up.
The a deep breath and say the mantra

I'm glad I'm not her I'm glad I'm not her I'm glad I'm not her....................

misscathcart · 11/01/2009 09:58

thank you -trying really hard to not do anything. I wont either. I know it really has nothing to do with me.
It just takes the biscuit
If ex gets hurt by her that is HIS problem. He walked out on me for her.
DP is the best thing that has happened to me and and I trust him with my life, but at the same time I have this ridiculous urge to tell her to 'keep away from my man!' haha! sounds so jeremy kyle.
Feeling a bit better already just for getting it out.

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misscathcart · 11/01/2009 10:00

I'm so glad I'm not her! I just can't understand some people though. How can someone behave in this thoughtless, selfish manner?

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lillypie · 11/01/2009 10:08

She's just a bitch.
Forget her and your ex, you sound very happy with your new man - don't let her spoil it even a tiny bit!!

misscathcart · 11/01/2009 10:11

you're right lillypie Thank you
I WONT let her spoil it. She's done enough.

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lillypie · 11/01/2009 10:18

Good

Now go and give your man a hug lol

misscathcart · 11/01/2009 10:22

sigh...he's gone away for two weeks this morning! Virtual hugs it will be though - and lots of lovey dovey texts!

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lillypie · 11/01/2009 10:25

Well you have something lovely to look forward to.
Plan something special for when he gets back

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