I have namechanged quickly for this one. I am not a troll I just feel a bit yucky about this. Kind of curling up crooning "Don't look at me!" If you see what I mean. I seem to have no libido and was wondering if events in previous relationships have affected this. A previous boyfreind used to be really persistent when it came to sex. He used to ask me to prove when I was on my period by showing him the string of my tampon. I've always felt pressured into having sex even the first time and never really enjoyed sex. Occasionally with my current Dp I do feel a bit of a buzz but can only really relax if I've had a drink (or four). It doesn't really affect my relationship too much as Dp is quite understanding but I just feel cheated that can't have a normal sex life without retreating at the first hint of pressure whether real or imagined.