Have been with DH for 7 years, he has intatiable sexual appetite, but he is 7 years younger than me, hence his approach isn't the most appealing. Add to this the hurt he has caused me (I can honestly say I have behaved impeccably towards him), he has hurt me time and again, is devious and lies. For example, he got drunk before the speeches on our wedding day, was too drunk to do the first dance and stayed up with his friends until 5am on the wedding night! This and many many other things have built up and put me off of having sex.
Him being younger has in the last 4 years become a problem, his approach is annoying, I cringe when he comes near me, he can't cuddle without touching my breasts or putting his hand under my clothes, it feels pervy and letchorous.
I know I would be better off on my own with DD, but am a great believer in marriage is for life.
I have told him til I am blue in the face, what I like, don't like, tell him to stop pawing at me, it is relentless.
Please help!! I just want a real man in bed and in a relationship, it is driving me nuts!