I'm a regular but changed my name for this as it's upsetting.
DP and I met, and 4 months later he proposed and we were so in love. I said yes, and a month later we got pregnant. We seem to be the perfect couple/family.
But recently I found out that he had been messaging other women via an internet thing even a few months after we met. Now I know it was even after we got engaged. His mum slipped up and grassed him up as he was using her internet.
Anyway, I wasn't sure how to feel about this. We have a 9 mo. We're soon to be married and we love each other very much.
I asked when was the last time he'd used his internet page and he said so long ago he couldn't remember. When I checked, it was last month. I told him, and he said that he was trying to delete it .
I asked when he had stopped messaging these women and he said he couldn't remember. He was very vague with a nervous smile, and kept kissing me. Then he got all defensive and said that it's all me and I'm doing his head in with my insecurities etc etc.
I just feel weird about it. I thought we never had any secrets but more and more of his secrets keep coming out of the woodwork.
Yet he's so vague about everything and I feel a distance sometimes. He's very loving and you'd never think it of him. Now I feel really inadequate and ugly. The women he was chatting to were beautiful.
What's going on?