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I kissed someone else

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Treebyname · 02/01/2009 16:01

I kissed someone else on new years and now i feel guilty as hell. I love my dp and i dont want anyone else which in my head makes it worse that i could do such a thing!
I haven't said anything but i feel like i've ruined things between us. We havn't been together long and we have a long distance relationship so we dont have a strong bond yet, but we are going to be living together permanently in 3 weeks.
Has anyone else done this? Do you just forget it as a drunken mistake or do you see more into it?

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leoleosuperstar · 02/01/2009 16:02

My friend done this once while we was on holiday.
Put it to the back of your mind and forget it happened.
Early days in your relationship so put it done to experience.
Don't worry.

Fimbo · 02/01/2009 16:04

You are not living together yet. Presuming this is a one off and you are not harbouring feelings for the person you kissed, just forget about it and get on with living your life with your new bloke.

LoveMyLapTop · 02/01/2009 16:05

a drunken mistake.
Put it behind you and look forward to moving in with DP.

DaddyJ · 02/01/2009 16:06

Early days..forget about it.

Guilty conscience is a good sign,
the opposite would be worrying.

mamalovesmincepiesANDmojitos · 02/01/2009 16:06

i agree. if it was stupid and drunken and you love your dp then forget about it.

these things happen, forgive yourself and let it go.

good luck living together .

ditzzy · 02/01/2009 16:09

me!

I had been with my now DH for about 6 months when I snogged his best mate... Not that it was ever a problem deciding whether to tell him or not, since he was standing next to us at the time

Anyway, when I saw him the next day he apologised to me, yes I do mean it that way round; and we both realised how close we'd come to ruining it all, and how we really really wanted to be together. Cue four years later said best mate was best man at our wedding.

Does that make you feel better? If it's made you realise that you really want to be with your DP then just chalk it up to an important lesson learnt, and never ever tell him...

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Treebyname · 02/01/2009 16:11

Thanks everyone
I have been looking forward to us living together from the day we met so thanks for making me feel better about it. I really want us to work!

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