We have been seeing each other for a few weeks now, but we havent had sex yet, i know he wants to, but he's not pressuring me. But i feel very embarrassed (for want of a better word), i had a bad sexual relationship with my ex, and have never enjoyed sex at all, now i have this truly lovely new man, i so badly want to experience good sex and make it work with him, has anyone ANY advice for me? anything to stop me feeling so self-conscious and nervous? Id greatly appreciate it TIA xxx