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stareye · 26/12/2008 23:29

Advice needed please!

Have just come out of an on-off (mostly off) 7 year marriage. Some friends helped me move home last week and that night invited me round to have a take-away with them (after the move) as a friend of theirs had turned up. I was totally exhausted and tired from the move, but thought it was a nice touch for them to invite me round.

Long and short of it was that their friend was very nice and had also come out of a marriage. He smiled at me quite a few times and seemed to be trying to confirm my marital status etc. He really made me laugh, which I've been thinking about a few times since then, as I can't remember the last time someone (a male IYSWIM!) made me laugh. He then proceeded to get drunk with his friend and didn't seem to register that I was going etc.

Thing is, I am so totally out of practice with all of this. Should I wait and hope that I get invited round there again and that he happens to be there? Or should I mention to the friends that I thought he was nice etc.?

Sorry if this sounds a bit pathetic, but as I said before, I'm so out of practice with all of this!

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PartOfTheHumphreysGroup · 26/12/2008 23:53

Definitely mention to your friends, no point waiting and hoping!
You may find out it was no coincidence that you were both there ;-)

Good luck and hope it's a happy new year..

stareye · 27/12/2008 00:16

Thanks PartOfTheHumphreysGroup. I did think it was a coincidence that we were both in the same situation and both there at the same time!

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