I am getting a divorce...

[vanillaicecream]

Hello

He made me promises he never kept.
The marriage is two years eleven months now.
We have two dc's 18months and 2months.
I was never happy for 2 straight weeks.
He beat me up less than two weeks after delivery of the younger dc and my tailbone still hurts...
We just had a fight and he says i'm worthless.

I'm kind of numb and i feel like my chest is going to burst any time soon.

I just need some kind words and advice to get through this...

you are doing the right hting

you are doing the right hting

Keep strong , remember you are doing this for you and your DC,You are doing the right thing, no man who hits deserves to be in a relationship

you are going to fel so good getting him out of your life. be strong!

you are keeping your children safe

Has the Domestic Violence been frequent? Are you in touch with womens aid? Has he left or will you feel safer leaving.

You may need these people:

women's aid

shelter

Seek legal advice immediately.

he hit me once when i was pregnant and then a few weeks ago.he's not here now. He's probably with his mother now talking about me. She was the cause of the second violence. She told him they were knocking at my door to say hello and i didn't open it. I was sleeping. He said i disrespected his mother and we started arguing...

It's not his mother's fault. It's his fault.

please seek help from Women's aid. You also need to go to the doctor if you are still in pain. Please get the injuries documented.

You sound better off without the arsehole.

Oh, and do exactly what BeanieB says. If you feel strong enough report him the the police.