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Does anyone here have any first hand knowledge of how CAFCASS operate?

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Gunnerbean · 15/12/2008 22:36

I have been on the CAFCASS website and know that among other things in disputes over access following separation/divorce a CAFCASS officer will act in the interests of the child/children, they are qualified social workers, fully idendpendent of the Courts etc.

I also know they make a report to the Court after meeting with and having discussions with both parties and children too and that when children are older they can speak directly to the officer and their wishes can be taken into consideration as well.

However, my question is that some children (especially where there is abuse present in the home) may well end up saying what one parent wants them to say, they may even say that they are their wishes but have been manipulated to say these things and to see the other parent as bad.

If other family members have vital information about an abusive situation have they got any right to have a meeting with the CAFCASS officer assigned to the case to provide them with vital background information which could well have a significant bearing on what goes into his/her report and the outcome of the case?

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PuzzYuleLogs · 16/12/2008 09:35

Bump

Gunnerbean · 16/12/2008 12:47

Thanks for that PuzzYuleLogs and I'm going to bump it again.

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Alambil · 16/12/2008 14:35

I can only speak from my very limited experience, but here's what happened to me.

CAFCASS were brought in to deal with the courtcase over contact my ex made; I wouldn't let him have unsupervised, he refused - CAFCASS reported after a while...

Anyway, I met with the officer, my ex didn't - he refused (yes - refused in his own case!) .... DS was only a baby so couldn't speak for himself, but I was allowed to take someone with me / notes to help me remember what happened (so for instance my mum wrote notes on what she witnessed, but I put it across to the bloke).

Basically, say the facts only - no emotional stuff; just facts (a bit like if you're making a police report)

I found it really hard seeing as the abuse was a very emotional thing - but the officer was nice and friendly

They are used to children being manipulated and all sorts of things; they'll have seen it loads and loads I rekon

OptimistS · 16/12/2008 14:37

Hi Gunnerbean. I've got no personal experience of this, but I'd have thought that if you phone CAFCASS and ask to speak to someone, they'll be able to answer your questions. Good luck!

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