This is going to sound very trivial compared to some of the real problems on here, sorry.
DH and I haven't had s*x in nearly three weeks. Before that, it was nearly two weeks. Every time we do, it's amazing and we both agree absolutely that we shouldn't leave it so long again. And then we do.
Can see lots of reasons why we wouldn't: 16-month-old DS who's CONSTANTLY ill (nursery germs) and often passes colds back to us (I can't remember the last time we were all healthy for more than a week). We often have visitors, or go away at the weekends.
We both work full-time. DH has to go to bed v early during the week and get up pre-dawn.
I dunno, though, shouldn't knowing we need to make more of an effort make it more likely to happen?
I feel more like a flatmate at the moment, and I know we're more likely to snap at each other etc.
Pre-DS we never rowed and laughed all the time. Even a few months ago we were doing better than this. I thought things were supposed to get easier, not harder . I don't think we're in trouble yet, but am worried we're heading that way.