My mother had a relationship 20 years og with a much younger man and the end result was my sister now 20. The father did not want to know alledgedly and so my mother met someone else and he raised my sis.
My sis has now wanted to find her real dad and I have managed to trace him, he has taken this very badly as he says my mother told him that someone else was the father.
Over the years my mother has tried to contact him,I did not know this, and he has accused me of lying to him about everything.
He clearly doesn't beleive me.
I am scared as my mother doesn't know I have found him and my stepfather will be devestated because he brought sis up.
Sis has been in bits over this for quite some time and I thought I would try and help her. I am worried that I have stirred up a hornets nest.