DP and DD just had the strangest argument

[twirlandpearl]

DD (15) has a friend over.

As DH (not her dad) was walking past the table DD started saying "big dick, big dick" under her breath. Friend was in stitches. I was just about to tell her off when DP started saying "big tits, big tits" in the same way! .

Both dd and friend fell about laughing, DP looked furious and embarrassed. I said to him "why the hell did you say that?" and he replied "what, so she can say what she likes to me but I can't say anything back?" he's the bloody adult!?

sorry if Im completely wrong but is this the same two who had the arguement over him eating loads of biscuits last week?

He sounds horrible.
I remember the biscuits thread last week and I thought he sounded like a twat then - seems like I was right.
How did your dd react when he said that to her?

He's a bourbon eating knob.

I think he needs some help in how to fit into step family life.

completely inappropriate and rather worrying.
If my DD was your dd's friend, I would wonder about her visiting....I'd certainly be having word about avoiding your dp. sorry.

Its very odd that a grown man would talk to a teenage girl that way tbh.
I would be a bit worried if I were you, arguing about biscuits is one thing, but this is a lot worse and frankly more than a little bit wierd.

His response is inappropriate, but so was her original comment.

Just read the biscuit thread and didn't see what was so bad about his remark then (or the eating of 8 biscuits!).

he is a big dick though.

Someone's bored today

I would not be comfortable with that at all. Was reading today that children in step parent families have 8 times the chance of abuse. I am sure there is nothing going on here, but just keep atuned to what's going on (I've probably been watching too much Eastenders too!)

Also, didn't mean to offend anyone in a step-relationship of any kind. I really hope not. I'm sure I'll be in one one day!

Well Fizz, if you are out of order so am I, it rang possible abuse alert alarm bells with me as well. (And I dont watch Eastenders.)

I'm not trying to scare you Twirl, but suspect you may have thought this yourself on some level and posted to sound out some impartial opinions.

She was probably trying to show off in front of her friend.

He was being an idiot.

Sounds like she doesn't have a lot of respect for him. you need to think about why this might be.

does he have his own children?
if not this may explain why he doesn't seem to know how to be a father?

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Lullabelletcetc

It should be:

Your family are weird, surely?

Or perhaps not.

Yes, biscuit thread please.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=am_i_being_unreasonable&threadid=640548-To-think-my-teen-daughter-shoul dn-39-t-talk-to#13053934

This may not work...

the whole thing is just ridiculous.

If however, you are actually being serious (doubtful) I would be very very concerned about a grown man speaking to a 15 year old like this and you need to investigate further/ get rid of him. He sounds like a f*cking ejit anyway..

(sorry - thats the biscuit thread)

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