revenge- what did you do to get back at a cheating dp/dh?

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lets have one for the girls here, am sick of hearing about lying cheating blokes. want to hear abut how we got our own back on them. i dosed my exh with laxatives,he was alcoholic and drank all the time leaving our babygirl without money for nappies.every time he was drunk, i mixed andrews salts ect into his dinner(cant taste it in curry/chilli/spicy stuff).the resulting shits got blamed on the drink,when he stopped i stopped.lol

You nuked tadpoles and worms

That is horrible. I thought the idea was to take revenge on an ex, not little creatures.

"I was young" - yep, so is my 4 year old but she would not do that.

BBeingpatient u summed it up brillantly. prawns in curtain poles ooooh thats brilliant!!!!smelly ones are the best! he he ha ha .+

I once sent an email to every single one of his friends telling them that he had cheated on me. Stopped short of telling his parents.

Got abusive emails back from the guys and good on yer ones from the girls.

Now a bit ashamed about it to be honest, as it shows that I did indeed care, but hey, its felt bloody good to press the send button!!!

My most recent ex I did all my crying in private and moved on with life pretty quickly. An attitude of indifference definately helps!

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Sorry - should add moved on as in stopped thinking about him, not moved on as in with another guy! That way trouble lies!

I cringed when I saw this thread title but on reading the resposes am very cheered to see most of you would not consider acts of revenge.

WHy bother?

if your partner prefers someone else but is too lame to make the break with you so what?

They prefer the new woman.The sooner you realise it the better.

Get over it.

Or act like a psychorevenge bitch and confirm why they went off you in the first place.

Hold your head up and move on.

you get just as many lying cheating women.

People cheat usually because they have formed an attraction with the new partner but still have some love left for the former and don't want to hurt their feelings.

Not an ideal/excusable situation but as someone here pointed out recently , life is not Noah's Ark- it's a bit messier.

Didn't want to get revenge really. Just wanted to move on and I did.
He pressed for divorce as his very rich parents cut him outta their will all the time he was married to me.(Different religions) (we had split a year and I wouldn't divorce as he'd paid me no maintenance for 3 kids and done a runner to another country)(his parents were evil bastards). I was stuck in his country, penniless, so poor on the poverty scale it was pathetic. (After two years of suffering like this my family eventually got me back into UK).
BUT I had one underage child to take with me and I gave him a divorce on the grounds that I could move freely with our youngest child. even though he was away in another country he managed do all this as he had a good lawyer to rep him (his parents paid, yet they watched me go downhill with their grandchildren, smiling). (My kids hate their GPs for this).
So he signed the declaration he agreed to this condition and I gave him the divorce.

His family were very racist and mean narrow minded people.

I now have a longterm boyfriend, 11 years younger than me, African, beautiful and adores me and I him. Letting them know that ahhhh... sweet, sweet... and shove it in their pipe and smoke it...

'one for the girls'?

Most women don't consider 'revenge' to be an appropriate response to cheating/betrayal. It all sounds a bit Jeremy Kyle to me.

fizzfiend, you must be a seriously mentally disturbed person with deep psychological problems to do something so sick.

Can't see someone ever 'growing out of' that kind of shit.

Hope I never know you.

Good God, the last thing i would have thought of doing is going to the garden, gathering up tadpoles and worms THEN putting them in the microwave THEN attaching them to a card! That is odd on so many levels!

Seriously my brain wouldnt let me even think of doing it.