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husband moved in with woman off facebook, left us devastated

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funkybabe · 17/11/2008 00:35

one minute were happy making plans then he discovered facebook and now im left to pick up the pieces of our broken hearts, has anyone else had simalar problems?

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thumbwitch · 17/11/2008 00:43

not personally but i know a lady whose husband re-united with his first girlfriend on Friends Re-united and buggered off after over 20 years of marriage - it's really shit.
for you.

FantasticMissFox · 17/11/2008 11:28

Feel for you. No advice I'm afraid just bumping for you. An anti mn (((hug))) to you

Tortington · 17/11/2008 11:34

kinell!

mumoverseas · 17/11/2008 11:56

oh funkybabe, so sorry to read this. On a practical note, have you sought legal advice from a family lawyer? I know you are obviously devestated at the moment but you need to know where you stand financially, ie is he going to carry on paying the mortgage/bills and maintenance etc. Once you know that you are secure financially, hopefully you will find things a little easier. x

watsthestory · 17/11/2008 12:05

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VinegarTits · 17/11/2008 12:07

What an arsewipe, was it someone he knew in rl?

BarbieLovesKen · 17/11/2008 12:14

Oh my God, you poor poor pet. What exactly happened? x

mumblechum · 17/11/2008 12:16

I've now done 5 divorces over about5 years for clients who, or whose other half, have rediscovered a lost love on friends reunited.

Dangerous territory, facebook/friends re. etc.

filz · 17/11/2008 12:17

I dont even get these sites and what people get out of them

sorry your husband turned out to be a tit

dsrplus8 · 17/11/2008 12:27

,what a git.hope she meets up with someone else from facebook and leaves him, that will teach the sodin ar*wipe!!!! i know someone whos dh ran off with someone else,they had a young baby at the time.SHE POSTED DH BOXERS THROUGH THE OTHER WOMANS LETTER BOX AFTER EMPTYING THE CONTENTS OF BABYS NAPPY INTO THEM, WITH NOTE THAT SAID IF UR TAKING HIM THEN YOU CAN HAVE HIS SHIT AS WELL. dh was homeless soon after and my freind refused to take him back. revenge,-petty but surprisingly satisfying

BarbieLovesKen · 17/11/2008 12:29

Cant imagine what you are going through. My heart goes out to you.

ginnny · 17/11/2008 15:12

My ex has left his gf for his first love who found him of FB.
I have to say I laughed - she split us up, now she's going through it herself.
Karma!

funkybabe · 17/11/2008 21:57

thanks everyone for ur messages, made me smile, him goin was totally unexpected we had been together 7 years marraid 2 and still loved up, have a 6 month old baby, he had met her at his friends and spoke occasionally i think then he joined face book and started talkin to her and made plans to leave, he said he loved me and was still attracted to me but needed to experiance other things, didnt know if he had missed out in life, case of grass may b greener, now findin out it isn't,he's not the man i knew a few weeks ago and have been in love with for the last 7 years i think he must be havin a crisis cause he says hes messed up and confused about what he wants in life, i was never supposed to find out, everyones shocked who know him they say we had a great relationship hes normally such a kind,gentle level headed bloke and totally bessotted with his baby,he has also devastated the lives of my two teenagers whom he has raised as his own since they were small, what goes on in a mans mind to lose everything to b a player

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thumbwitch · 17/11/2008 22:12

perhaps pore ickle diddums was feeling a bit left out because your lovely 6mo baby was "taking too much attention" away from him and this other bint was offering him the attention he so obviously needs. Twat. Sorry, but he is.

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