I have namechanged mainly because I am recognizable in rl. I am not a troll. I know about jf and why cod left and about Tamba etc etc.
Before me, dh had only had one gf. they split up because she'd slept with his best friend.
Anyway, we recently were talking about her and wondering if she was still married or single (she had quite a reputation for cheating on boyfriends). So dh looked her up on facebook and there she was. He sent her a 'is this you' type message and she promptly replied and added him as a friend.
I have no issue with this. Dh has been very open about it and I trust him completely.
However, when she added him she sent him a message saying that yes, of course she remembered him and was so glad to hear from him etc etc.
He accepted her friend request but didn't get around to replying to the message.
Then he received another message from her a couple of days later along the lines of "I was hoping you would have replied to my message by now, I was hoping that after everything that had happened between us we could be friends. Although I know that what I did to you was possibly unforgivable, but I really hope we can put the past behind us. Please get in touch, I really would love to hear from you."
Now, am I reading too much into this? or does it all sound a bit full on from her?