Ok, sorry this is a long saga but most of you know about my situation and the reasons i left a twenty year marriage, just getting myself sorted, even got the courage to file for divorce.
today i got a letter from his solicitor, telling me he wants access to his youngest child age 2, but not only access he wants the little fella overnight from lunchtime on sat to lunchtime on sunday. i know hes deluding himself thinking hel get this well im hoping he is, not saying if it goes to court im saying when it goes to court cause im gonna fight this all the way.
this is the doting dad that has never changed the childs nappy, never put himto bed, never fed, bathed or spent longer than 10 mins on his own with him. Couldnt tell you where his birthmark is. not given me any money deprived us of hot water and heating since he was born. Not to metion what hes put his eldest children through in the past number of years, getting his eldest son arrested for falsley accusing him of assault oh the list is endless.
but this letter has knocked me for six, completely,
i have all the documentation of what has been going on in the house over the last twelve months and this is all with my solicitor, which she has advised me what he has done is mental abuse.
is there anything else that i can do to make sure that the courts are on my side eventually when all this does get to court.
i carnt believe that i was just getting on my feet feeling halfhuman again and nowim feeling as low as i did before and im not even in the marital home( which i mite add he said as in his name and belonged to him therefore it was me and the kids that had to move as he wasnt going to).
i feel like im at my witts end again.
anyone any advice please.