Hello ladies,
I'm a regular poster on MN but posting under a different name for now as I don't really want people knowing who I am right now.
As title says DH has an unusal "fetish" - I'm sure if fetish is the right word or not tbh.
Any it's bellys. He has a real thing for them, he likes to squash them, he likes to seem them being squashed, he likes to sit/stand on mine & squash it with his hands, erm....other parts etc.
It really gets him going but tbh it's beginning to bring me down.
He constantly grabs my belly (which after having the DC is faaaaar from my best feature especially with DC2 only being 3 months old) & prods & pokes it. He likes to push himself into it so much so that I can't even get a plain & simple hug from him without him having to push himself into my belly.
He used to look up things on the net like women standing on other womens bellys & the like - I say used to as I don't know if he does anymore, the last time I found some on the computer was when I was PG with DC1.
He spent the whole of DC2's PG going on & on about how it was only x months til he got 'his' belly back.
I know I should be grateful that he still (I think) finds me attractive but sometimes I wish sex would involve less belly action & more tenderness.
I often see him eyeing up other womens bellys & it makes me feel concious (sp) of my belly as it really has gone to pot after having the DC & looks like a road map with all the stretch marks.
I find it quite an odd "fetish" & so can't really talk to anyone about it.
I knew about all of this before we married as it became quite clear very early on into our relationship that bellys were his thing but it really is starting to being me down.
If he walks past me he has to push his hand into my belly - most of time it seems like we can't have sex without him getting his 'be;;y fix' first & I feel so sad about it.
I don't really know what I'm expecting from this post tbh - I guess I just needed to get it down in writing.