i left h and am now living with xp!

[vbadindeed]

I have posted alot in the past due to my unhappy relationship with h. A few weeks ago i decided i couldn't take anymore and also xp (who i regretted leaving) made it clear he still wanted us to be together. So i moved into his house with ds.I love being here with him and feel happy and am finally sleeping at night again. But i feel very vulnerable living in his house (i'm sahm) as if anything were to happen tp him i'd be homeless. Also whilst he has sorted out his benefits at wotk so that i get a payment if anything were to happen, there is nothing else. I don't want to keep going on about it to him but i just don't like feeling this vulnerable - should i talk to hi more about it?

Are you getting divorced and then you can marry him so it becomes more legal.

i sure i will get divorced soon, just want to be absolutely sure about things before i instigate it. dp has told me he wants to be with me forever but the subject of marriage has not been discussed (we were engaged when we split up). And for me getting married for a third time.....

i sure i will get divorced soon, just want to be absolutely sure about things before i instigate it. dp has told me he wants to be with me forever but the subject of marriage has not been discussed (we were engaged when we split up). And for me getting married for a third time.....

Yes, you must talk to him and I hope he will reassure you. Hve you thought about finding childcare for ds and getting a part time job one or two days, so that you can put money by for a rainy day?

Why do you think something might happen to him?

Glad you are feeling happy - it's a sign you've done the right thing. The feeling of being vulnerable is natural if you've had the emotional stuffing knocked out of you a bit.

i talked to him about it and he was really nice about it. He's going to take out a life assurance policy and also make a will leaving all his things to me.

thanks. Dp is sorting out wil and life assurance