Hi, after finding out my hubby was texting another woman, polish 26yr old, back in April,she went back,i found out , usual stuff , thought things were different between us, he denies anything sexual happened just friends,well lots gone on, shouting, tears on my behalf, she phones me up i am jealous woman,, in between all this ihave a cancer scare , have tests, biopsy etc, thankfully all ok, but have to go back in 6months for check up,then our ds has meningitus scare, in hospital, but ok now, thank god, , i think we are back on track slowly but then, day after our ds comes out of hospital, i decide to look at his phone, dont know why gut feeling i guess, and yes, his got her number on phone again under polish bloke at his works,i tackle him again, denies again, said bloke gave wrong number, his face was a picture thou once realized had kept her number still on my phone,we are still together, he says he gets bored during winter,i said so do i but dont text a young bit of fluff and lie etc,Thats four weeks ago, i dont check his phone mainly coz its locked away in his car, he seems ok, more chatty and loving, but why do i wonder still when his at work, he works till early hrs.my mind keeps ticking, when together i think we can get over this, but home alone with ds"s i get doubts., I still love him and wonder if its mid life crisis ,his in his 50s, me 12yrs younger.I dont want to spend nxt year wondering again like i have this yr,i know he will never tell me the truth , he just shouts and gets defensive,says he made a mistake.