I have been seeing my current boyfriend for about 6 weeks or so now. We get along great, he is a really nice guy and although there has been a slight issue in the bedroom everything seems to be going well.
He does have some bad points but I have put this down to everyone not being perfect and is a million miles better thn my ex who pushed me around and stole my money. I am finding it quite hard getting used to a guy being nice to me and not being frightened of him which again has sparked a few issues but he has been very considerate and understanding when I have explained my reasons. So heres where the problem begins. Before I started seeing my bf I was really into another guy, Im pretty sure he knew how I felt about him but had just come out of a bad relationship himself and said he wasnt ready for another realationship. Was kinda gutted as I did really like him but resigned myself to the fact that he wasnt up for a relationship and just tried to move on. but now over the past few weeks a few text messages have been exchanged. He has made it clear that he is gutted that Im with someone else and that he likes me. I feel horrible. My bf is sweet and caring and I do like him but I also have feelings for this other guy and I know I have to choose one or the other but its never as simple as that iykwim. If it were that easy I would have dont it already.
This is so totally out of chracter for me and I would never cheat on my bf. I would never let it get that far but im still totally confused.