I statrted seeing a guy a month ago and this week he came down to stay for a week which I thought would be great (lots of sex) but he's crap in bed and I dont know what to do. Sex has always been pretty important to me but it is just bad with him.
He is really rough and doesnt seem to understand the concept of being gentle or slowing things down. He is like a jack hammer and when I kinda ask him if he could be more gentle or slow down he doesnt listen. He will for about all of 5 seconds and then hes back at it like a mad man!!! Its all kinda a one way thing as well. Its all about him getting the fun and I dont really get a look in. Kinda makes me feel a bit sleazy tbh and last night I let him go to bed first and did a load of housework so that he would be asleep when I got into bed. I have explained to him that its gonna have to be a bit gentle to start off with because I have a 3 month old dd which has made sex quite painful for me but he seems to have selective hearing. So shall I just give up on it or is it going to drive me mad. At the moment I feel quite disapointed about it all. I was rather looking forward to this part of the relationship because it has always been so fun in the past but it makes me crine now! Help please.