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Husband on web cam

12 replies

wispykitty · 28/02/2005 17:46

hello,
any other mums out there worried about there husbands sexual antics on a web cam?? I am lost and need advise, my husband is very secretly doing this(not so in secret)can any one advise or help, i have a 15 year old daughter who i am worried about

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lunavix · 28/02/2005 17:49

Ummm

What exactly is he doing? And are you sure it's sexual?

dejags · 28/02/2005 17:50

wispykitty - my advice would be to confront him and let him know that it has to stop. This is not acceptable behaviour, especially with a teenager in the house.

beachyhead · 28/02/2005 17:51

just thinking about Dirty Den - is this the way he really wants to be seen

SeaShells · 28/02/2005 17:52

I'd smash up the web cam, that is out of order!

anorak · 28/02/2005 18:01

You can't stand for this, it is wrong. How insulting to be doing this when he has a real woman waiting for him in the next room. And if your dd finds out she will be so disappointed in him. You must talk to him and make it plain that it can't go on. If he needs counselling so be it.

munnzieb · 28/02/2005 18:04

personally I wouldn't stand for it, I wouldn't stand for it when DH told me he was going to put his pic on the hot or not web site for a competition in work, personally i'd play blue murder until he stopped.

oxocube · 28/02/2005 20:47

Hmmmm ...

AuntyQuated · 28/02/2005 20:53

yes, oxocube...hhmmmmmm!

HappyDaddy · 01/03/2005 08:07

That is way past harmless flirting or banter. You are right to be suspicious. Ask him how he'd feel if you talked to the postman, naked.

Toothache · 01/03/2005 08:09

Wispykitty - How come you haven't come back to your own thread?

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wispykitty · 05/03/2005 22:44

Hi,
thanks for everyone that replied, yes i havnt been on the net and replied as, my hus and i made a pact and left pc alone for a few days, he is going to get help, so hopefully my talking to him has worked. I didnt realise toothache you expected me to reply straight away, that hurt me---- i guess we all cant be perfect,

regards to you all and if i can help you out i will try

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SPARKLER1 · 05/03/2005 22:48

Not sure what to say to you - it must be a very difficult time for you. Not sure how I would react if it was my dh - would probably go mad. Hope you get things sorted SOON.

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