mixed messages from sutpid ex-boss person. stupid stupid man

[MascaraOHara]

He's started giving me all mixed messages again.

Luckily I don't seem to care but god it's annoying.

I feel like shaking and telling him to just say what he thinks/feels.

Idiot. twat face.

Just needed to get that off my chest. thanks

Oh dear
what has he done??

he's just an eejit really.

after months of barely any contact he obviously wanted me to be at a certain place at the weekend.

I think he wanted me there for moral support iykwim but I know he wouldn't have spoken to me at all.

I gave up trying to work out what goes on his head a long while ago and we have maintained some sort of weird friendship but GOD he's annoying sometimes.

I didn't reply to one of his texts the other day (didn't have phone with me) and 20mins later he text me to ask if I was ignoring him

etc

I don't know what he thinks he's playing at

Do you think it could be that he's not that interested in you but he wants you to be interested in him as its an ego boost for him? I've seen that a lot.

He knows or thinks that you've moved on from him. So he wants to know he can get you back. Once you fall for that again, he will revert to "not sure what he wants", "not in the right place for a relationship" blah, blah, etc.

Leaving you, once again, feeling confused and upset.

Can you tell I've met the type before?

yeah probably.

when he sees me drifting off he makes a small effort to rein me back in again but would never normally have risked me taking dd somewhere where she scould see him in front of our colleagues. Which was just bizarre.

Also implied he would drink which would have meant me giving him a lift home (or rather back to my place)

yeah that's exactly what he is like GSD