At the beginning of the year I discovered my DH was having an affair, it was a horrible time.
At the time you can imagine it was awful. The OW alternated between calling our house and comiserating in how awful my DH is, advising me I should kick him out as I would cope fine on my own. She got another female to phone our home several times and also my mobile and pretend that she also was seeing my DH. (long story but we proved it was her or one of her friends doing this)
I of course was going mental with all this, I did ask him to leave, he wouldn't. It was awful for a long time, however he did manage to convince me that we could work things out. We have moved area, very near my family, basically what I am saying is that he has made a real effort and things are getting better all the time between us.
He has two phones, (classic sign I know) one for work and his own. He rarely uses his own one, and this was the one that he was using at the time he was seeing OW. On friday I took it out his drawer and switched it on. After a few minutes it started buzzing away with about a dozen messages. OW "I want to see you" "I could have been so could for you" Can we be friends if nothing else, I miss you". "I don't understand why you won't reply" "I love you". These messages havent been picked up by DH as he doesnt use this phone any more and they go back a few weeks.
Part of me wants to reply as him, part of me wants to rip her head off, and the remaining part of me is sick that she is trying so hard to reach him and what will happen whem she does. Some of the messages were sexually explicit therfore it is clear she wants more than friendship for a start.
I am sick that a woman who herself has a child is so intent on splitting up another family. I havent told my DH about this, but he knows there is something up. I don't even know why I am posting this, I just am so sick of this nasty excuse of a female.