For the last month I have tried to avoid talking with her, after the last great virtual slap in the face from her. But tonight, my mum recounted something that my sister had told her, about something that happened in school to her dd. I said what I thought, and my mum asked me to call my sister, I said, "no, nothing good is going to come out if it, I rather not be the one she lashes out on", so my mum tried recount what I said, and made a total botchery out of it, so I grabbed the receiver and tried to convey my views.
She had written a letter to her dds teacher, which she read for me. It was the crasses and most argumentative and non-consilitary letter I have heard. I said to her she might want to soften it a little as she sounds quite agressive in her tone. She got really angry, as she always has to be right, and said ."Oh I really cant be bothered with you, any dialogue with you is nothing but fucking trouble." I said, "Oh, if you think that, let me put mum back on the line", and I gave the receiver to her. And I could hear her mouthing off to mum about how horrible I was. FGS, mum had been next to me all the time, she had heard what I said. Nothing horrible, or nasty.
Two weeks ago it was something even more ridiculous. I really think she has lost perspective of reality.
Thanks for letting me rant.