So many good ideas that can make a difference.
Date night once a week if you can't get a babysitter then rent a video or have a nice meal.
Don't let the kids take over at night, strict bedtimes and good sleeping habits make the world of difference, if you take turns spending ages upstairs getting the kids off to sleep, make a vow to tackle this now and claim your evenings back.
Stop listening half heartedly and actualy listen properly, you might not give a toss if they have some fantastic new machine in his work, or he might not care about your company losing a contract but what is importnat is to listen to how they feel about this news how it will affect them etc.
Change habits, think about the little ruts you are in, like always sitting at the same bit at opposite ends of the settee, sounds silly but move get out your comfort zone and make an effort.
Family time is important too, going to the park together or for a walk or pizza hut, whatever but taking the time together as a family and working on strengthening your partnership as parents is good too, working as a team to deal with upsets and tantrums and smiling proudly while watching him interacting with the kids.
Write a love letter or a little note, under his pillow or in his lunch box.
Don't send all your time on Mumsnet, switch off and go and cuddle hubby .