Well, me and my fiance finished with each other last night, 2 much has happened since the birth of our son 6 months, i dont even know who he is anymore, he talks / texts skanky hos from the net all day rather than spend time with his son, once i found out we tried to give it another go and he promised he would change but theres no diffrence now he talks to them and lies about it! So i finally took the first step and told him i wasnt happy even tho i love him with all my heart, i cant be with him knowing that he doesnt feel the same way! So now im trying to just get on with it, but i just cant believe im now a single mum (nothing wrong with single mums btw, i mean i just never pictured this in our future thats all)! i know its for the best really - he is living at his mums now and went to the pub at 12 this morning, even tho hes in the RAF and goes away for 4 months nxt week, u would think he would want to spend every min with his son, he thinks hes living the dream but it wont b long til his own son turns to me and asks "mummy who is that"!!! Soory for the long moan / rant! (But i feel better!)