everything about him seems great. We get along like a house on fire and talk for hours at a time on the phone. He loves my kids. He seems really genuine and nice and I would like to start seeing him. I want to take things really slow, get to know him really well before I commit to anything serious. It will be my first relationship since exp and will be a whole new game now as I have the kids to consider. I dont want to introduce them to him untill were definately a serious item. But he is coming on a little bit too strong. I dont quite know how to describe it.... Its all a bit too much IYKWIM. I have been in a really bad relationship and treated like crap so this is a totally new experiance for me but its all too much too soon, Im not used to a guy being so nice to me and I have told him this. I have only known him a few weeks. How do I get him to back off a little bit. I dont want him to think im not interested because there is a real spark between us but at the same time this is all a little bit too intense for me and moving more quickly than I want it to.
He is the type of guy I can chat to about anything so I know I can tell him, I just dont quite know how to put it to him. Im not sure of the right words to use with out making him feel hurt or like im not interested. any ideas???