Am in the process of falling out forever with old uni mate who is furious I'm not going to Australia, at christmas, for her wedding. It's the final, fairly chunky, straw after lots of others.
had a flat mate who had serious man trouble with a guy who wouldn't committ. Over two years they broke up and got bck together so many times I just got bored, especially as he was a wanker, but always told her what was giong to happen and she always believed it would be different. After years and years of listening to her cry - normally while I was trying to go to bed for work the next morning - I got tired of it. She also couldn't take it when I then met someone fabulous and had him round the house etc. We had blazing row and agreed to move out. I think it could have been salvageable but she was SOOOO unpleasant during the moving out phase (which incidentally was about 4 months after big blow out) - rude to my sister and bf, standing behind me to check I didn't take more herbs from the join herb cupboard, no goodbye when she left... i decided to write her off. We still have mutual friends and see each other and she's dead keen to be good friends again,but I maintain a friendly, but cool demeanor to her at all times.
Especially as she subsequently bought a house, which is something I'd normally be happy for her about. But as the entire time we lived together I subsidised her because she was supposedly so broke, I was a bit cheesed off when she suddenly, 8 months later, produced all these savings to buy a flat with.
Yes yes, I know, I'm not that nice either!