Since I have been a single parent (4 years now) we have always been short of money. Never able to afford a holiday or anything but then about a year ago I found work and our finantial situation has improved dramatically. After paying debts off etc I booked a holiday to the US for me and my two boys as a celebration of our new lives.
We were REALLY looking foward to it, just the 3 of us.
Then I met someone, we were together a few months before things started getting more serious and he met my kids, I met his and everything was going great.
Then all of a sudden he started saying he wandered if there was still room on the plane and in the hotel for him to come along on the holiday. He never asked me, just assumed I'd want him too.
After a few hints (more than a few really) I asked my kids how they'd feel about it and they both said no, they want it just the 3 of us like planned.
In a way I'd love for DP to come along, adult company, a chance to be together but then on the other hand is it fair to change the holiday when the kids have been looking foward to it just been the 3 of us?
I more or less told DP that the kids were not keen on the idea and he just brushed it off saying they wouldn't be bothered soon as they'll be so excited and he can pursuade them with extra ice-cream etc (eldest is 12, not 3 lol )
What do I do? are the kids being spoilt or do they have a point?
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Radoxx · 07/08/2008 21:57
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