OOOPs, a lot of these things I do! DH just shouted at me for clearing up the children's tea things but dumping the piled up plates etc with left over food and baby wipes still in, straight in the sink without putting anything in the dishwasher or bin!
DH does some of the things above but because I am even more slapdash and slovenly than him I don't care!
I don't like wet bath towels on the bed though.
And he gets throwing away frenzies like someone else said, but throws away stuff of mine which he thinks is rubbish but is very important to me.
He is always going on about what a good husband he is and how lucky I am to have him and asking me if he is better than my friends' husbands and he says it slightly accusingly as if I don't deserve him because I am not a good wife.
He has never been wrong in an argument in his opinion and never apologised. He can't take any criticism.
He can't talk/listen to me about problems/emotions for very long before he gets angry.
He doesn't sympathise if I have had a hard day or if I am ill but makes it a competition and goes on about how hard he works and how I can't have been as ill as he was when he had the same illness a couple of days ago. He becomes useless and goes to bed but when I'm ill I still have to carry on and look after the children and do the housework (not that I do a lot, we live in a bit of a state).
He often just doesn't listen to me at all but stares at the TV or lets the DCs interrupt.
He seems to think everything his mother says is right and I feel he would take her side over mine.
When we go to his parents' house he becomes about 10 again and does absolutely nothing while I do everything with the children and his mum waits on him hand and foot. And his parents think it is correct that I should do everything! He has been brought up to think all he has to do is earn money.