really torn...it's 13 years today. we are very lovely to each other but not into romantic gestures (no cards or pressies - mutual) we're both a bit under the kosh workwise at the moment - we're both freelance and have no childcare so it's constant juggling of each other's work demands and the kids. dh is having the kids for the day and doesn't mind if I work all day. but I hate the project I'm working on (and am starting to get horrible stomach-churing panics about it) really can;t decide whether to say "feck it let's all have a nice lunch" or be sensible (and get on with it and try to assuage the approaching deadline panic...). the other factor is that we're both sick of pizza (everytime we eat out with dds it's the same) and if we do go we'll go somewhere quite posh and the girls can eat bread - but we'd like them to at least try something tasty...I am incapable of making a decision