missing dh.

[misdee]

feeling like a single parent. cant cope with only seeing him for a couple of hrs a day.

lou, i wouldnt have been able to cope with what you saw on hols.

Misdee, that is great about the accom. Got my fingers crossed for a quick bed swap

better check they have maternity unit.............

he isnt moving hospital today, and wont be over the weekend. just told him i cant visit today as dd1 is really upset atm and missing us both, so am gonna spoil her after school and over the weekend. might be able to visit this evening if my parents go over to see my brother, and if i can get a sitter as well. just really feel like i'm splitting myself in 2 atm.

misdee I think you are being such a star through all this worry and stress. You are very lucky to have each other and your strength is an inspiration to all those of us sitting around and whingeing about painful toes
Hope you and dd have a lovely weekend and dh's hospital move goes OK when it happens

good news misdee

Misdee, You're not near Nottingham are you?

Otherwise I'd offer to visit your dh for you. I know it's not like him being able to see you, but having any visitor is better than no one being able to go (I know from the time I spent in in 2003)

Otherwise of course I'd babysit for you (but that won't help you spend time with dd).

If I can do anything, even dig out some books and stuff for dh to read, just let us know (CAT me, even if you don't think anyone can help with something, you never know if you don't ask)

Misdee, I think you are a fine example of what people call a Supermum!

just snuck on here quickly. dd's are pretending to be doctors atm, and are nursing their babies back to health. poor dollies are being jabbed lol.

dh is reading some everton books atm, and his mum has been up tovisit today. think my brother said if he was allowed off his ward for a wander today he would visit dh as well.

we're in herts, so nowhere near nottingham, but thank you for the offer. right i'm off to find a film to watch later with the girls and order a takeaway for us.

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Misdee, you are one heck of a woman and you and your DH are so lucky to have one another. Keep being you, keep strong, keep smiling and keep posting. Thinking of you bith and think you're great, TC xx

he is gonna ask if he can go out for a few hrs as long as he doesnt overdo it.

Maybe get a couple of phones with cameras so you can send picture messages to keep in touch?

Sorry, misdee. I misread the date on your post as March in instead of Feb and thought I'd missed something and your dh was back in hospital.

I've just caught up and know things are particularly tough at the mo.

Sorry once again.... but camera phones might be a lovely way to send snaps of what you're up to with babba etc.

Hi Misdee,

Sorry your having a bad time of it of late. I wish I could help in some way. Do you have any mates or family nearby that could pitch in and lend a hand occasionally?

Poor you, but dont get down, try to focus on when he does come back home. Being anything less than posistive is all you need to come really down. Although of course we are all entitled to good and bad days! If its any consolation we here at mumsnet think that your doing a great job and your in our thoughts.

Love Tam x

dh is at home now. but he has an appointment soon at harefield about transplant list. obviously we are hoping he can stay out of hospital till gets the important call.

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