WHERE are they??! The decent blokes that is!

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There are none left... I'm gonna be alone forever....

I WANT A MAN ... I WANT A RELATIONSHIP

with a small caveat; I don't want sex next week (if I were to meet him today..!)

Is that REALLY too much to ask? Why does every bloke who talks to me only want his sodding leg over?

I'm enraged... I want to go back to the seventies when people dated and a kiss at the end of the date was a bonus

Who told you the seventies was like that? lol. Not from what I remember

My first couple of dates with my DP were just nights out with a kiss as he left me, but by date 3 he did invite me to his bed (apparently because he enjoyed my company!!)...I declined his kind offer & went to the spare room & he respected me for it. We are still together 11 months on.

Married. and happily so. i am rapidly giving up hope!

i have them all locked in my spare room, sorry

when u find them let me know, all I seem to attract is emotional fuckwits, or players.

oh apart from one - but he's another time, another place etc, but he's lovely. my best male bud.

Men are like public toilets, all the decent ones are taken and the others are full of crap

P.s. if you do find a decent one, can you ask if he has a brother/best mate please!

I don't remember the seventies as being innocent at all. You must be referring to the fifties. I wasn't born then so cannot speak from experience. I don't know where they are either. I'm not bothered if they want sex straight away I can fend that off.

Just want someone decent that matches up.

I know a few. Shall I set up a dating agency?

Rhubarb, yes please or at least give them my facebook details as I really need some new cyber friends, preferably male. I'm serious btw.

CAT me.

Will do, hope I can remember how to do it.

You click on the envelope to the right of my name.

I sent a message in haste, did it through 'contact a mumsnetter'. Guess it's the same result. Hope you get it soon. I'm on facebook but have a paltry sum of friends and its getting embarrasing. Its a generation thing. It hasn't caught on amongst the over 40's quite so much.

Lewisfan, sorry I appear to have hijacked your thread earlier.

Well my XH is available. Just his bitch cow of an XW can't appreciate him doesn't mean he wouldn't make anyone else happy. I'll get you an introduction if you like.

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