need to know what's the best for my child

[sasa15]

getting divorce with dh after 6 months separate in the house...
we have a 4 years old boy,
who is going to leave the house?
I'm going to be the guardian so I can stay in the house we are renting...
what's the best for the child...?

I have new partner ...I don't like the idea that ds sees him sleeping in the same bed of mam and dad.....

I don't like much this house anymore...
where I was living with dh...

what' s the best to do....for the child...
I don't want ds have this vision of life...

anyone with the same experience???

Please bump!

where can I find advice for this?

Not sure what the question is... but I would say stay in the house.

it is very quiet on here today so you might be better to post this later

Are you asking whether to stay in your house or move?

Your child will be happiest wherever mum is happiest, so if you'd rather start a new life in a new house then go for it. Your ds will be fine.

what about introduce the new partner,,,sleeping in the same bed of mam and dad?

well it's not mum and dad's bed anymore is it? It's your bed and you are allowed to share it with a partner.

A four year old will think nothing of it apart from "mummy is happy so it must be alright". He doesn't already have all the social norms and conventions in his head that we do. To him, what he sees is what is normal.

he's a very clever and sensitive..boy, also he'll probably will say around mum is not sleeping anymore with daddy but with "R"

well yes, he probably will ay that, but so what? Or is it a secret? He's just stating a fact after all.

ta