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Ok, so what do you do when your husband doesn't trust you?

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hesdrivingmecrazy · 04/07/2008 10:07

have namechanged for this, so I apologise.

Dh and I have been married for 4 years and have 1 lo. recently we've been having some problems and he read a thread on mn about a woman who was considering an affair with an ex. I am still very good friends with my ex, and we often see each other when out with our mutual friends, all of whom Ive known since primary school. there were some simillarities and he jumped to the conclusion that it was me I have told him it wasn't over and over again and he has said that he believes me. although Im furious that he assumed it was me, we have agreed to try to make it work for our lo.

anyway, last night I recieved a message on fb telling me that i had been tagged in a photo. i opened it up, dh asked to see it, and it was a pic of a night out in feb, where my ex is standing behind me. it looks like he has his arms around me to be fair, unless you look closer. then you can see that ive got my hand folded in front of me. it is not a v good quality pic (taken on a mobile in a dark pub) but he is still not talking to me. says that he feels sorry for his (then) gf standing there while he's all over me.

Im so cross. he obv doesnt trust me!

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hesdrivingmecrazy · 04/07/2008 10:21

can anyone help/advise?

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WilliamGray · 04/07/2008 10:22

i think your h is justified in feelign nervous

id not tyr and presuade him though
just leave it

DeeRiguer · 04/07/2008 10:34

slightly unfortunate timing
would leave it though
dont feed any paranoia and dont give him any amo to think this

AllFallDown · 04/07/2008 10:52

What would you have felt if it had been a pic of him standing with his arms apparently round his ex, with whom he remains very close, and with you having difficulties together? Can easily imagine the responses here being: you can't trust him, check his mobile, watch out because he's building up to an affair ...

hesdrivingmecrazy · 04/07/2008 11:18

thats a fair point, im just so frustrated. its horrible to know your dh doesnt trust you, when youve given him no reason to suspect you!

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