didn't know whether to post this in pregnancy or here - I am 30 weeks preg and although our sex life has gone up and down throughout this pregnancy I just can't find my libido. I know it's partly to do with feeling gross, I know DH finds me attractive but I don't feel it. I've never been self conscious or cared about the odd wobble or stretch mark but right now I feel ugly. I have angry red stretchmarks on my belly and my arse and thighs are enormous and cellulitey I am also a bit fed up of pregnant positions, I have to manually 'finish' as bump won't allow for any friction! Also, pregnancy makes me smell down there so I feel funny about DH going down unless I've literally just had a bath (and it's really hairy, which I hate)
Ok I know there isn't really much to be said here, just wanted a whinge and I know it's not gonna get better for a while! I'm hoping that even if sex is rare after it's born it might at least be good... please tell me it will be once I'm back to (almost) normal?